TJ and Matt's Surprise Gay Marriage Proposal

How we met: Honestly, I added Matt as a friend on Facebook back in 2009. I thought he was cute, we had mutual friends, so I thought, “what the hell?” and went for it. When I added him, Matt was working as a sound designer for a cruise line and I was heading off to school. He actually did it for four and a half for more years, so our interactions were strictly online, extremely innocent. After school, I moved back to Indianapolis, and finally asked Matt on a date. His response: “If you’re boring, you’re paying.” Needless to say, he ended up paying :).

how they asked: Zach, our roommate, convinced me to throw Matt a surprise birthday party. Zach is an amazing videographer, so he offered to make a ‘roast’ video, with outlandish stories and jokes from our friends. I invited Matt’s family (they live about 3 hours away) down for the party, and Zach set up a secret Facebook event.

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Fast forward to the night of the “birthday party”: I pick up Matt from work, and have to kill 3 hours, so I made him browse the aisles of Target with me, we grabbed dinner, and walked around one of our favorite neighborhoods (side note: I am a nervous sweater and a horrible secret-keeper, so I am sweating BULLETS right now!). We pull into our garage and open the door to the backyard to our friends singing “Happy Birthday,” while holding signs that spell out “H-A-P-P-Y B-I-R-T-H-D-A-Y M-A-T-T.”

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We sit down to watch the roast video, our friends and his family behind us. At the end of the video, the camera zooms out from a story to Zach and Matt sitting on the couch. I was so irked that Matt was in on the entire thing (you can obviously tell in the video!), but things ended up a helluva lot better than I ever could have imagined. Matt (in the “roast video”) tells me to turn around, and all of the signs read, “T-J W-I-L-L Y-O-U M-A-R-R-Y M-E ?” I was completely speechless (and think I blacked out! — thank God for the video!).

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The birthday party turned out to be our engagement party, and the night was perfect. The wedding is October 3rd, 2015, and we could not be more excited!

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PS – I’ve also included the ridiculously amazing dessert and candy bar my soon-to-be mother-in-law put together. It is INSANE! Matt asked her to bring cupcakes.

Surprise Gay Marriage Proposal