How We Met
I was just 16 years old the first time I seen him walking towards me. We had so many mutual friends, yet I had never actually met him until that cold winter day I decided to cut class. It was simple, actually. We spent the afternoon talking about things I can’t even remember, but what I do remember was the way I felt, how close I felt to him. The day flew by and before I knew it, I was home thinking of him. For some, it might have been a typical day of a teenager cutting class, but my entire life changed that day.
We spent every single day together, after that day. I had discovered what people meant when they said they loved their best friend. I still remember the first time he kissed me. We were at a local hang out spot one night, and our fingers wouldn’t stop intertwining together. We both must have been doing it out of nervousness, in hopes that the other would build up the courage to “make the move”. I couldn’t wait much longer, so I came up with something to say to make him jokingly tell me to “shut up”. To this day I can’t remember what it was I said, but all I remember was how excited I was to say “make me” in reply to his “shut up”, in hopes that he’d finally kiss me. Absurd and childish? Yes, but what isn’t when you’re 16 and in love? And after all, it worked! A group of people at the table across from us clapped, they literally clapped because they too saw how much our eyes glared at one another.
I knew from that day, he would be the man I kiss on my wedding day, the man to kiss my future children good night, the man to kiss my bad days away, the man to kiss my morning breath lips on a lazy Sunday morning. I knew he was the man I was going to marry. That was nearly 6 amazing years ago.
how they asked
It was never a question IF, it was when. I fell in love with his smile when I was 16. I knew he would be the one I’d marry. We love traveling and going on adventures together. Anytime Petrit & I have traveled, we’ve always taken professional photos together. He took me to Thailand, and it was a trip that we both had been so excited for!
We had just spent the most incredible time together exploring Bangkok, and had already been on so many adventures. Every time we travel it gets better and better, but how could it get any better than this? It was our second day after arriving in Nai Yang Beach, Thailand that the time to take our pictures came. We took some pictures on the grass of our hotel grounds and then we went across from our hotel in a “national park” full of beautiful trees along side the stunning beach of Nai Yang.
It started raining and the skies went dark, and bullets of sweat and rain dropped down his face. He was so upset it was raining, and I didn’t know why. “What’s the big deal, we’ll have cool pictures in the rain this year”, didn’t seem to calm his nerves of the rain.
Since the rain made it dark and we were under canopies of trees, the photographer told us to walk onto the beach, that there would probably be better light there. I swear to you it was as if God was watching down on us and blessing us. I am not exaggerating when I say that In a matter of seconds, the rain completely stopped and the skies completely cleared displaying a hue of colors and the sun began to set. Standing there in awe, watching the most beautiful sunset I had ever seen in my life, my heart swelled, and I knew. I turned around, and there he was on one knee with that same beautiful smile I fell in love with when I was 16. My best friend now truly became my future husband, and my never ending sunset.