About the Team


Hi, I’m Meghan Stolar Brown, Director of How They Asked. Working in the wedding and events industry for many years, love stories are my jam. And the more details the better! I’m a proud New Yorker and have been located there ever since I graduated from New York University with a degree in music business. My husband and I met in High School and have been together ever since. You can read all about my own proposal here: Meghan & Ivan’s Proposal Story.

Associate marketing manager

Hi there! I’m Kathryn Eder, Associate Marketing Manager at How They Asked. I’m a sucker for a good love story and proposal story, and help the team share yours on our social media! I may even shed a tear here and there … but don’t tell anyone! I am from Virginia, graduated from George Mason University with a degree in Communication with a concentration in PR, and currently live in Hoboken, NJ.

community coordinator

Hi, I’m Courtney Jenney, the Community Coordinator at How They Asked. I find such joy in working closely with each and every couple to share their own unique story on our site – and YES, I swoon over every single proposal! I am originally from Cape Cod, Massachusetts, I received my degree from Seton Hall University in Public Relations, Graphic Design, and Advertising Art, and I can’t wait to share your special moment!


How_He_Asked-43Hi, I’m Stacy Tasman Stahl! I started HowTheyAsked after a dear friend of mine got engaged. I felt blessed to be a part of the proposal and honestly couldn’t tell you who was more swept up in the emotion – my newly engaged girlfriend or my [extremely mushy] self. Thus, HowTheyAsked.com began. I’m a storyteller myself and unstoppably inquisitive. I love all things real, passionate, and energetic, and when life gives me lemons – I build a lemonade stand. I live in New York City, am a University of Florida graduate, and I’m lucky to have traveled through some of the world’s most beautiful countries over the past few years. Most importantly, I get to know extremely excited women and help them share the most amazing story of their life with their friends, family, and all the love-addicted readers of how they asked. And yes, I cry reading every single one.